I have also been a sydadmin for a long time, so maybe we're in a bubble, but I don't find it stressful. If something's down, it's down. If someone complains, I

I have also been a sydadmin for a long time, so maybe we're in a bubble, but I don't find it stressful. If something's down, it's down. If someone complains, I offer them a full refund of the $0 they pay, which stops complaints fairly quickly.