As a Uruguay national, I can't "just cross". I have to apply for a visa, and at the time there was a significant chance of it being denied - and forget about b

As a Uruguay national, I can't "just cross". I have to apply for a visa, and at the time there was a significant chance of it being denied - and forget about being refunded, and chances of it being accepted after re-applying drop dramatically. So it isn't worth it. I could probably be accepted for a visa now since I "settled down". And Canadian customs and inmigration were very friendly, I don't doubt the U.S. people might be the same (though they did fingerprint my father the time he was there, and he reported a few not so friendly times, and he is a frequent visitor).