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I concur. Labels add no value and hold people back from improving their lives. Dealing with groups requires one set of skills. Dealing with solitude requires a
by spodek 15y ago
I concur. Labels add no value and hold people back from improving their lives.
Dealing with groups requires one set of skills. Dealing with solitude requires another (with much overlap).
If you don't have skills for one situation you will avoid it. Once you acquire the skills to handle it, you'll be able to handle either. If you can only handle one now that doesn't mean you can't handle the other, it just means you haven't yet.
When you have the skills and experience to handle one situation you will enjoy it and look forward to it, either one. When you don't you will not look forward to it and feel anxiety or fear from it. You don't have to be stuck that way. The same with any other set of skills.
I once didn't have skills to handle groups. Now I do. Labeling me an extrovert would have held me back from learning skills and gaining experience to handle groups. I was anxious and afraid of going to the gym before I started going, but I wasn't a non-gym person. I just had to build up skills and experience.