-Asking for forgiveness/apologizing. Even if you are right, a heated argument is always wrong. -Learn to be quiet even if what is said hurts. Most of the time

-Asking for forgiveness/apologizing. Even if you are right, a heated argument is always wrong. -Learn to be quiet even if what is said hurts. Most of the time what hurts is actually not meant literally. -Never generalize unless you are really calm and have thought about the matter and have many examples. It is very easy to turn a discussion on today’s grocery shopping into “you are always putting yourself first”, which is useless. -Be eager to forgive.