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> And if someone sincerely was informing me I was doing this to the point where they could no longer tolerate my presence But thtat's the thing. On fediverse n

by konart 4y ago

> And if someone sincerely was informing me I was doing this to the point where they could no longer tolerate my presence But thtat's the thing. On fediverse nobody informs you (unless you have an argument with someone). Your instances just gets banned, possibly by multiple instances\relays and that's it. Not to mention that they are putting everything into one basket: transphobe, racist, fascist even capitalists are bad. Everyone is bad are you are also bad if you have any connection to those. >(It’s not like I’m losing my job, getting divorced, etc. from this!) Yes, you just lose connection to a people you were previously following. Even if they are okay with whatever your stance is. > Like I know I’m neither of those things, and if people think I am, holy shit!! I need to fix that asap! No, you should not. Otherwise you will spend your whole life fixing problems that do not exist. Some idiots who can't even take their time and learn what does the word "fascism" is are telling you you are a fascist while you are not? Fuck them. They need some help, not you. (Unless of course you are staring to hear the same thing from different people including those who actually know you. In that case you probably should question some things)

SamoyedFurFluff 4y ago
I think you and me are different people frankly. I’ve never had to worry about being called a racist, or a fascist, or a nazi, because I’m receptive to feedback. I earnestly think social media feeds are a really low stakes way to be informed you come off as a nazi to a large enough group of people that they decided to ban you instead of talking it out. And frankly it makes no sense to me that if someone informs me I come off as a hardline, non-negotiable nazi that I shouldn’t at least take 0.02 seconds to ensure I’m not the asshole. Like I said before I would rather learn it off a github pr than my boss firing me or my partner divorcing me or my child enstranging.

by konart 4y ago

SamoyedFurFluff 4y ago

I think you and me are different people frankly. I’ve never had to worry about being called a racist, or a fascist, or a nazi, because I’m receptive to feedback. I earnestly think social media feeds are a really low stakes way to be informed you come off as a nazi to a large enough group of people that they decided to ban you instead of talking it out. And frankly it makes no sense to me that if someone informs me I come off as a hardline, non-negotiable nazi that I shouldn’t at least take 0.02 seconds to ensure I’m not the asshole. Like I said before I would rather learn it off a github pr than my boss firing me or my partner divorcing me or my child enstranging.