Yeah, this is the tradeoff. As someone living in a metro area of similar size, you will be disappointed if you're used to bigger cities. There's less of everyth

Yeah, this is the tradeoff. As someone living in a metro area of similar size, you will be disappointed if you're used to bigger cities. There's less of everything: diversity, food, entertainment, everything. The CoL is about the only benefit. If the suburban homeowner lifestyle appeals, I agree with GP that that's the sweet spot. If that doesn't appeal, do. not. bother.