I think there's an important distinction between "not caring" and being detached from our own opinions. Say you're having an awful day and snap at me. If I we

I think there's an important distinction between "not caring" and being detached from our own opinions. Say you're having an awful day and snap at me. If I were to "not care", I might just go about my business and that would be fine. But if I try to dig a little deeper, put myself in your shoes, and really understand what's going on, then I've not taken it personally, but I've made it very clear that I do care.