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Interesting! I guess then my usage of Mastodon is making it the "zero toxic" thing it is for me. - As said, I'm hosting my own instance, and I understood in th

Interesting! I guess then my usage of Mastodon is making it the "zero toxic" thing it is for me. - As said, I'm hosting my own instance, and I understood in the beginning that I don't just want to see the federated stuff (mostly weird sexualized anime images with way-too-young characters). - So I manually searched through catalogs of instances listed at the website. - I went through most of those instances, searched for users with followers and read their first couple of posts to see if they're human and interesting by any means (e.g. I happened to stumble upon a librarian instance and have learned so much about their day-to-day worklife and tools). - Now I'm following like 900 people and have ~270 followers. That's more than enough to fill the no-algo timeline with interesting stuff. - I'm only using the Home timeline and almost never the federated one, sometimes searching, hashtags etc.

sbuttgereit 4y ago
I think my main issue with your original post is that you expressed what you've achieved as a generality and not as the result of your specific, active curation of your Mastodon experience. That you can achieve warm, cozy, and non-toxic with active curation is not something I'd dispute. But I'd maintain that experience is not the default experience and I'm not sure that's so different to what you could also achieve with Twitter either (I could be wrong here, been along time since I used Twitter). To be fair, I'm not sure that anything trying to have the reach and be of similar purpose to Twitter can escape some flavor of Twitter's fate... whether that is leftist or rightist dystopia being irrelevant to the point. And to be fair I've even toyed with the idea of setting up Mastodon instances (though probably using different server software) focused on strictly civil/professional discussions as part of the rule set. But of course this leaves most of the "federating" part of the equation off the table and leads me to my next observation. The only social networking that I've found that is genuinely warm and cozy, by default, are some of the Discourse communities. They are absolutely small, disconnected islands of community, but by being topical and smaller I think they avoid the toxic by default characteristics that broadly generalized communities devolve into. Of course, Discourse communities can be built around toxic content, too, but you just don't sign up: what you see is what you get. I think this more topically focused social media is really the best way to avoid the cruft compared to the open community approach.

sbuttgereit 4y ago

I think my main issue with your original post is that you expressed what you've achieved as a generality and not as the result of your specific, active curation of your Mastodon experience. That you can achieve warm, cozy, and non-toxic with active curation is not something I'd dispute. But I'd maintain that experience is not the default experience and I'm not sure that's so different to what you could also achieve with Twitter either (I could be wrong here, been along time since I used Twitter). To be fair, I'm not sure that anything trying to have the reach and be of similar purpose to Twitter can escape some flavor of Twitter's fate... whether that is leftist or rightist dystopia being irrelevant to the point. And to be fair I've even toyed with the idea of setting up Mastodon instances (though probably using different server software) focused on strictly civil/professional discussions as part of the rule set. But of course this leaves most of the "federating" part of the equation off the table and leads me to my next observation. The only social networking that I've found that is genuinely warm and cozy, by default, are some of the Discourse communities. They are absolutely small, disconnected islands of community, but by being topical and smaller I think they avoid the toxic by default characteristics that broadly generalized communities devolve into. Of course, Discourse communities can be built around toxic content, too, but you just don't sign up: what you see is what you get. I think this more topically focused social media is really the best way to avoid the cruft compared to the open community approach.