> Human beings, especially young people, need social pressure to help them make good decisions. Also in many cases to make bad decisions. What if all your fri

> Human beings, especially young people, need social pressure to help them make good decisions. Also in many cases to make bad decisions. What if all your friends order the deep dish? > The fact is that most people think they’re special, but they’re not. True. IMO your advice and social pressure is not special. > But for maybe 80% of people, it’s not going to get much better than getting married, having kids, and working to put food on the table. My point is that those 80% can likely figure that out for themselves.