Under your ice cream analogy: "Ice cream is associated with nuts." "Here's a list of ice cream flavors which do no contain nuts." "You're both right because

Under your ice cream analogy: "Ice cream is associated with nuts." "Here's a list of ice cream flavors which do no contain nuts." "You're both right because all of these those ice cream flavors contain either nuts or chocolate." "These four flavors from the list contain neither nuts nor chocolate. And here are five more flavors that contain neither nuts nor chocolate .. and I know that ice cream with nuts exist because here's one with nuts." Ice cream is significantly more associated with chocolate than with nuts. Apartment living is significantly more associated with city living than with living in "the ghetto." Our most recent (and rich) ex-president raised his kids in an apartment in the city.