16 ms·

My friend got expelled in 5th semester after spending over $70k on education. His ex went nuclear after he dumped her, and somehow that was relevant to his educ

My friend got expelled in 5th semester after spending over $70k on education. His ex went nuclear after he dumped her, and somehow that was relevant to his education. Obviously no refunds or appeal! If you are at uni, treat is as a career. You do not shit where you eat! Big part of marketing is "socializing", but that comes with a huge risks to your future and investments. Apprenticeships do not care about your sex life!

deleted 4y ago
[deleted]
kredd 4y ago
For every data point like this, there’s also data like mine - I met incredible people during my university years. Especially the first two years when we all lived on campus, we were basically a family. Even though we’re in different coasts of the continent, we still meet up 5-6 times a year, travel, some of us even married to each other. Socializing and making new friends in your late teens and 20s is an important part of one’s life. Downplaying common space’s (e.g. college, work and etc.) importance and looking at it from a perspective of ROI, minmaxing every aspect of it is probably not the healthiest look.
- t344344 4y ago
  My friend is not a data point. It destroyed his life and he still has to pay his student loans. There is no chance to get any money from person that did that to him. > Downplaying common space’s (e.g. college, work I am not downplaying anything. At all those places male has to behave certain way. You do not drink at company xmass party, that is a common sense! You can have all of that without any risks. Become bartender at evenings, surf instructor or go apprentice route. College is not the only place! > For every data point like this Like 20% of women have problem [1] during their college years. That also means 20% of male students are on opposite side of this. I will not go into how data are measured and reported, but there is a huge chance to get stuck in this net as a male student! [1] https://www.campussafetymagazine.com/safety/sexual-assault-statistics-and-myths/ https://www.campussafetymagazine.com/safety/sexual-assault-s...

deleted 4y ago

[deleted]

kredd 4y ago

For every data point like this, there’s also data like mine - I met incredible people during my university years. Especially the first two years when we all lived on campus, we were basically a family. Even though we’re in different coasts of the continent, we still meet up 5-6 times a year, travel, some of us even married to each other. Socializing and making new friends in your late teens and 20s is an important part of one’s life. Downplaying common space’s (e.g. college, work and etc.) importance and looking at it from a perspective of ROI, minmaxing every aspect of it is probably not the healthiest look.

t344344 4y ago
My friend is not a data point. It destroyed his life and he still has to pay his student loans. There is no chance to get any money from person that did that to him. > Downplaying common space’s (e.g. college, work I am not downplaying anything. At all those places male has to behave certain way. You do not drink at company xmass party, that is a common sense! You can have all of that without any risks. Become bartender at evenings, surf instructor or go apprentice route. College is not the only place! > For every data point like this Like 20% of women have problem [1] during their college years. That also means 20% of male students are on opposite side of this. I will not go into how data are measured and reported, but there is a huge chance to get stuck in this net as a male student! [1] https://www.campussafetymagazine.com/safety/sexual-assault-statistics-and-myths/ https://www.campussafetymagazine.com/safety/sexual-assault-s...