It is naive to believe that 100% understanding each other somehow will lead to less violence or war. If you 100% understand that somebody wants to take what is

It is naive to believe that 100% understanding each other somehow will lead to less violence or war. If you 100% understand that somebody wants to take what is yours, rape you, or in any other way have a deep desire to cause you harm, then the conflict and violence will still happen. There are people out there who truly and deeply believe that they are superior to others and therefore have the right to take what is yours. They might 100% understand that you are not happy about it but they simply don’t care. So you either accept to be a victim or use violence to stop it. Any attempt to negotiate or talk about it will be answered with a fist in your face.