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Congrats man. Enjoy your time with your daughter. Time is the only currency that matters.

Clubber 4y ago
>Time is the only currency that matters. I'm mid GenX and I wish I hadn't spent so much time working. I will never get that time back.
- seadan83 4y ago
  Ditto, early 20s grinding at amazon instead of building a life.
  - midoridensha 4y ago
    I think it's fine to do that in your 20s for a while to build a resume and a big bank account. After that, though, you should probably prioritize other things in life. Don't live your whole adult life like that; it's not worth it.
    - seadan83 4y ago
      In hindsight, I'm not sure if it is ever worth it. Particularly when young. Early 20s imo should focus on balance and growing. I should have joined some sports leagues to develop a social circle. Nobody wants to be 25~27 and have no friends. Professionally, the resume build was good. The pay, 2.5 yes experience and made about 80k/yr all in. That was still a 50% raise, but not life changing or worth the 55-75hr work weeks (averaged about 60). Was too much sacrifice, not saying quitting was thd option, just could gave tried less hard and easily worked 5 to 10 hours less per week with the same result.
      - midoridensha 4y ago
        >just could gave tried less hard and easily worked 5 to 10 hours less per week with the same result. I think this is an important point. Too many people spend too much time at work thinking all those extra hours will somehow pay off for them. They almost never do: the slacker co-worker who leaves after his 8 hours are done might get a slightly lower raise, but after 10 years you won't see a significant difference between the two in savings or career trajectory, all other factors being equal. The slacker might not be as well-liked by management, but he'll quit after a couple of years anyway and go to another company and get paid more than the hard-working guy putting in 60 hours/week, then do the same after 2-3 years, etc. Loyalty is not rewarded.

>Time is the only currency that matters. I'm mid GenX and I wish I hadn't spent so much time working. I will never get that time back.

seadan83 4y ago
Ditto, early 20s grinding at amazon instead of building a life.
- midoridensha 4y ago
  I think it's fine to do that in your 20s for a while to build a resume and a big bank account. After that, though, you should probably prioritize other things in life. Don't live your whole adult life like that; it's not worth it.
  - seadan83 4y ago
    In hindsight, I'm not sure if it is ever worth it. Particularly when young. Early 20s imo should focus on balance and growing. I should have joined some sports leagues to develop a social circle. Nobody wants to be 25~27 and have no friends. Professionally, the resume build was good. The pay, 2.5 yes experience and made about 80k/yr all in. That was still a 50% raise, but not life changing or worth the 55-75hr work weeks (averaged about 60). Was too much sacrifice, not saying quitting was thd option, just could gave tried less hard and easily worked 5 to 10 hours less per week with the same result.
    - midoridensha 4y ago
      >just could gave tried less hard and easily worked 5 to 10 hours less per week with the same result. I think this is an important point. Too many people spend too much time at work thinking all those extra hours will somehow pay off for them. They almost never do: the slacker co-worker who leaves after his 8 hours are done might get a slightly lower raise, but after 10 years you won't see a significant difference between the two in savings or career trajectory, all other factors being equal. The slacker might not be as well-liked by management, but he'll quit after a couple of years anyway and go to another company and get paid more than the hard-working guy putting in 60 hours/week, then do the same after 2-3 years, etc. Loyalty is not rewarded.