Just 1 thought: Elites feel like losers, because they set high standards for themselves. High standards come with respective advantages, but also drawbacks. Th

Just 1 thought: Elites feel like losers, because they set high standards for themselves. High standards come with respective advantages, but also drawbacks. The end. The rest of details can be filled in by individual experience and standing. Some people keep raising their standards, and are never content. This means that even as their skill rises, they still feel like losers, because they keep moving the goalposts. I think everyone should aspire to high standards, but also find a reasonable stopping point.