notice how this case (OP) is not in a workplace, and happened once, meanwhile the pronoun case is in a workplace, and a repeated pattern of behavior there’s a

notice how this case (OP) is not in a workplace, and happened once, meanwhile the pronoun case is in a workplace, and a repeated pattern of behavior there’s a difference between telling your neighbor to fuck off and your manager intentionally constantly harassing you at work then firing you for it