There is no adequate alternative to loving parents. "The village" can only help or hinder, not replace. The primary factor to success and happiness in life is

There is no adequate alternative to loving parents. "The village" can only help or hinder, not replace. The primary factor to success and happiness in life is your family structure and having their loving guidance and support. Today, the village mostly hinders. Few people have experience with children anymore and most are self centered. Their "help" mostly consists of direct criticism, or indirect criticism in calling the authorities.