To those downvoting, are you doing so on the basis of the idea that you believe that denying one’s personal experiences and telling them who they are and what t

To those downvoting, are you doing so on the basis of the idea that you believe that denying one’s personal experiences and telling them who they are and what to feel is preferable? Because if so, I would highly recommend you consider whether you might be an authoritarian if not just a huge jerk.