Also, therapy generally encourages effeminate behavior. Re-read the Unabomber Manifesto while standing on your pile of crunchy broken glass and let it sink in.

Also, therapy generally encourages effeminate behavior. Re-read the Unabomber Manifesto while standing on your pile of crunchy broken glass and let it sink in. Everyone in PhD programs feels the same way. Sounds like you need some gym-and-beer friends.