>You consistently get feedback that you disagree with. This doesn’t mean the feedback is correct, but it does mean that how others perceive you differs from how

>You consistently get feedback that you disagree with. This doesn’t mean the feedback is correct, but it does mean that how others perceive you differs from how you perceive yourself. So what? There are a lot of reasons why the perceptions might not match. There are standards of respect and etiquette to uphold (if you don't do that, you lack tact or civility, not self-awareness) but beyond that, worrying about this is either a recipe for neuroticism or conformity. Edit: Avoiding self-delusion is good, but delusion (of grandeur or otherwise) is a step beyond lacking self-awareness.