Where are we headed? What app should we use to share/communicate with others in a group setting without ads or having an option to have our data not to be mined

Where are we headed? What app should we use to share/communicate with others in a group setting without ads or having an option to have our data not to be mined or sold? Is there a HN poll of a range of apps and how many is using each (and maybe a daily/weekly time usage of each)? Some data to review below (*may be biased): Most Popular Apps 2022 (Global) TikTok 672 Instagram 548 Facebook 449 WhatsApp 424 CapCut 357 Snapchat 330 Telegram 310 Subway Surfers 304 Stumble Guys 254 Spotify 238 https://www.softwaretestinghelp.com/most-downloaded-apps/ https://www.softwaretestinghelp.com/most-downloaded-apps/ https://www.businessofapps.com/data/most-popular-apps/ https://www.businessofapps.com/data/most-popular-apps/ https://www.zucisystems.com/blog/15-most-popular-apps-to-download-in-2021/ https://www.zucisystems.com/blog/15-most-popular-apps-to-dow... https://buildfire.com/app-statistics/ https://buildfire.com/app-statistics/