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> And I'm not sure anyone loves this attitude either. Keep it technical. If I didn't include that proviso, I'd have someone arguing with me to the death about
by ok123456 4y ago
> And I'm not sure anyone loves this attitude either. Keep it technical.
If I didn't include that proviso, I'd have someone arguing with me to the death about how I'm completely wrong and an idiot who doesn't understand the Correct Way of doing things.
- rat9988 4y agoThis is the same as people behaving as jerks claiming that other people are jerks.
- ok123456 4y agoIt may be "not nice" but it's an accurate and sincere appraisal.
- saurik 4y agoIf you define "being a jerk" to include "calling out someone for being a jerk" then you will never be able to improve the situation.
- nindalf 4y agoThey’re not just calling out though. They’re condescending with their “airquotes”, they’re stereotyping with their broad strokes. It’s not useful criticism to simply say “this community was such-and-such”. I’d expect them to do better. Speak specifically to people saying something you disagree with. Don’t let it fester within you and then take it out on a broad group. And I know you didn’t do any of this, but you did seem to be defending some pretty low quality behaviour.