For step 4, I recommend hanging out with the families of friends of the outcome of step 2 & 3. There are multiple benefits of this approach. But apart from th

For step 4, I recommend hanging out with the families of friends of the outcome of step 2 & 3. There are multiple benefits of this approach. But apart from that, I feel your pain. There should be more people like you, hope you find them instead of having to convince people that are not like you.