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> Do it! > Or the easy way. > 1. Find a husband/wife. 2. Get some kids. 3. Get some more kids. 4. Invite some other families with lots of kids now and then. 5
by oblio 4y ago
> Do it!
> Or the easy way.
> 1. Find a husband/wife. 2. Get some kids. 3. Get some more kids. 4. Invite some other families with lots of kids now and then. 5. Profit!
I think you're mixing up the "easy" and "hard" ways here :-)))
- jrumbut 4y agoTruth be told I found #1 very easy, #2 and #3 seem straightforward enough, but since I've made it a goal to see friends more it's been a herculean task. I find myself being one of very few people actually taking the initiative to propose in person hangouts and to make them happen usually involves doing everything in my power to make them as low effort/cost as possible for others. And honestly I'm grateful for the people who actually agree to do things, they're hard to find!
- fifilura 4y agoFor step 4, I recommend hanging out with the families of friends of the outcome of step 2 & 3. There are multiple benefits of this approach. But apart from that, I feel your pain. There should be more people like you, hope you find them instead of having to convince people that are not like you.