I struggle with maintaining relationships, I sometimes feel like I'm not doing enough, or I'm doing too much. This applies to relationships with my friends and

I struggle with maintaining relationships, I sometimes feel like I'm not doing enough, or I'm doing too much. This applies to relationships with my friends and family. Especially my friends, we play this game sometimes, where it feels like they've reached out more often than I have, and it's my turn to reach out, or vice versa. Do you have suggestions on how I can maintain relationships and feel good about it? Things that have worked for you? Can you share your story?