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It's very weird watching believers in the blank slate hypothesis, collide with reality again and again. In general women are hard wired to being attracted to h
by realjhol 4y ago
It's very weird watching believers in the blank slate hypothesis, collide with reality again and again.
In general women are hard wired to being attracted to healthy, high status intelligent men, with access to resources, and good personal hygiene. Fortunately for men, these are all things guys can do a lot to cultivate and build through concerted effort.
It's really no different to the things most men find attractive in a women. We can tell whether a women is "hot" instantly.
This notion of challenging the expectations of society, or redefining gender roles is largely nonsense. You can't redefine the things men are going to find attractive in women, no more than you can redefine the things women are going to find attractive in men.
It's a little odd that anyone is even surprised by this outcome. That's liberalism- I guess
- amanaplanacanal 4y agoIt's really hard to tease out differences caused by culture from differences caused by genetics. This has nothing to do with "liberalism", science is just hard when it comes to human behavior.
- realjhol 4y agoI agree the science is hard to do, but most people who have ever encountered women don't need a scientific studies to discover things that are blatantly obvious. Generally speaking, Women are attracted to men who are above, or at least across from them in status hierachies. Men who are unfortunate enough to lose status become less attractive to many women, increasing the risk of divorce among women who are unscrupulous. Liberalism makes a virtue of ignoring things that are obvious (challenging stereotypes, breaking down stigma etc.), by pretending that they don't exist. This leads to surprises when mundane reality reasserts itself.
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