// that there was a word he could've used to describe his style of thinking I actually think you found those words in this post. He could have just said "I oft

// that there was a word he could've used to describe his style of thinking I actually think you found those words in this post. He could have just said "I often need a day to digest a conversation. So ideally let me sleep on it after we talk about something" The desire to articulate something like that is 99% of the task. Words can be found.