Yes, that was the point I made. Either opportunity costs or it costs for if both parents work full time. I do think that families that figure out how to at lea

Yes, that was the point I made. Either opportunity costs or it costs for if both parents work full time. I do think that families that figure out how to at least have one parent home for the kids seem to have better relationships with them. I like the idea of families that can swap each parent having a year or something with the kids, the issue is that most careers don't support that model. You can't have multiple year gaps in your resume nor do both spouses often make the same income.