It was a long way. I was 34 years old when I broke with my partner. She worked witn me at the same place (Spanish university). I have to work with she 3 more ye

It was a long way. I was 34 years old when I broke with my partner. She worked witn me at the same place (Spanish university). I have to work with she 3 more years until I have to go out of that place, because it was very hard to work with she (and her new boyfriend, he worked at the same place too). It was very hard. I had to return to my mother's home, and tried to search first another job, then another place to be, and last another couple. A process of 10 years. Things I learned from then: . Patience and keep calm. After some years things will be ok again, but it needs time (and work). It's a long hard way, but keep calm, don't want to solve everything in days or weeks. . Family is important. I really thank my mother for his support in a very difficult time. . I think I had to go out from that work the day after, not three years after. . Only few people at work would be real friends. Sorry for my poor English and good luck.