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Great comment. Indeed it's not black and white. And yes... live together for 3-5 years or so and then get married if you want. I wouldn't rush it. > When I le

• wonderwonder 4y ago
  I left software completely. I had to get out. Every software job I have ever had results in me working 60+ hours a week, often more. I took a random office job at my wife's very large company. I was able to leverage my tech skills and excel. Got promoted very quickly. The main difference at least fore is when you leave the non tech job for the day or the weekend, it's gone. No need to think about it. Software is different, always some stupid deadline which requires nights and weekends. I eventually went back to software and have been here for many years now. I definitely feel like leaving again but the golden handcuffs and having kids makes it harder. It was relatively easy to get another job. It was an entry level job making 55k but I only kept it for a couple years. Which is really a shame because it was the best software job I've ever had but it was a small company and I had kids to provide for.
  • uxcolumbo 4y ago
    Those damn golden handcuffs ;) … lucky to have that problem, but still… burnout / boreout is no fun. I’m in a similar position as you, thinking about pivoting to something else for a while, but hesitant to make the jump because of economic uncertainty. Thanks for the insight.