Agreed. I think he meant it in the context of "Don't try to be somebody else", and not "you can never change so don't bother trying". I think if you come at it

Agreed. I think he meant it in the context of "Don't try to be somebody else", and not "you can never change so don't bother trying". I think if you come at it with the first take, you can be inclusive of personal changes due to growth.