I'm a bit odd in that I prefer total silence, though my wife needs background or white noise. I'd rather just have the ringing in my ears than ringing PLUS som

I'm a bit odd in that I prefer total silence, though my wife needs background or white noise. I'd rather just have the ringing in my ears than ringing PLUS something else. There's something distinctly different between ANC and true silence, and despite several attempts I've never found an ANC that proved otherwise.