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Be willing to leave. Sounds trite, but it's true. If your employer knows you are never a threat to leave, they will never try to convince you to stay with mone
by run4yourlives 15y ago
Be willing to leave.
Sounds trite, but it's true. If your employer knows you are never a threat to leave, they will never try to convince you to stay with monetary incentives.
Once you are willing to leave, shop around and "interview" with your employer too. Figure out what the best overall deal is at that point.
- wallflower 15y agoMy friend wanted to move his family across the country. He approached his managers with the proposal that they let him work remote. And, more importantly, he explicitly let them know if they did not accept his proposal that he would resign. He got the remote approval and he says that there was no bluff. He was all-in. If they said "sorry, we cannot do that. Cya", he would have had to resign. Because his creditability would be shot if he said "oh, thanks for considering". He feels he got it because he really was forcing their hand.