Again, I feel like you're being quite overly dramatic with your language here. No one is being abused. Also, you said "OP is perfectly fine to just focus on th

Again, I feel like you're being quite overly dramatic with your language here. No one is being abused. Also, you said "OP is perfectly fine to just focus on the degree and know the world will continue on while OP works." but the post you're responding to never said anything to the contrary. They were just speaking about marriage in general - at literally no point did they tell OP not to focus on their degree.