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> Then when I finally connect with somebody I do like, I have this constant fear that they're the ones pretending, while harboring resentment towards me. We're
by jason-phillips 4y ago
> Then when I finally connect with somebody I do like, I have this constant fear that they're the ones pretending, while harboring resentment towards me.
We're all pretending; some do it blindly. It's easier to see once one is aware of that which underlies the automaton in all of us.
- spatley 4y agoA supplementary point of view: as we all pretend, blindly or not, what matters is how we relate to each other and treat each other. I have no way of knowing what people really think of me. But how they treat me affects me deeply.