> 1. You don’t get to decide if another human’s feelings are valid or not. > I can’t tell you if your feelings are valid or not, and vice versa. > Do the work

> 1. You don’t get to decide if another human’s feelings are valid or not. > I can’t tell you if your feelings are valid or not, and vice versa. > Do the work properly if you care, or just shut up and stop causing even more shitty feelings. Well that escalated quickly. And also walked you straight into the paradox of tolerance.