I think you misinterpreted my words: it's fantastic that humans (both men and women) have more options, if they choose to have less kids that's noone's business

I think you misinterpreted my words: it's fantastic that humans (both men and women) have more options, if they choose to have less kids that's noone's business but their own. We did ok as a species with way less people that exist today, society will adapt, and there is no valid reason to impose "society's choice" on anyone.