Sounded like some of them wanted casual sex, but others were interested in lasting relationships. The common denominator seems to be that at 25-30 years old, me

Sounded like some of them wanted casual sex, but others were interested in lasting relationships. The common denominator seems to be that at 25-30 years old, men feel like they can take their time and go slowly, and have years to burn trying out relationships that may or may not pan out; while at the same age range, women feel like they need to move quickly. Not as many dudes that want to move fast, or women that are ok with moving slow, so we end up with this disconnect.