Then your interest is romance. For many men, the intention of dating is sex. They are willing, if they must, to perform romance along the way; but that is a co

Then your interest is romance. For many men, the intention of dating is sex. They are willing, if they must, to perform romance along the way; but that is a compromise, not a goal. The romance may become genuine in practice, but that still doesn't make it an explicit goal. This is the side-effect of a cultural narrative that pretends sex and romance to be one and the same.