It may just be people need a reminder sometimes - like someone taking you aside and saying "hey, did you realise how many interpreted your comment?". Imagine l

It may just be people need a reminder sometimes - like someone taking you aside and saying "hey, did you realise how many interpreted your comment?". Imagine logging in to HN one day and seeing a black screen or something with your comment and a small note saying it wasn't appreciated by the community because it was uncivil - then everything goes back to normal and you can continue browsing. A gentle reminder may be all that is needed?