Doesn't matter. If you invest time in a game (maybe even in a competitive or "ranked" mode) you expect that everyone in your team is playing seriously. People w

Doesn't matter. If you invest time in a game (maybe even in a competitive or "ranked" mode) you expect that everyone in your team is playing seriously. People who don't shouldn't play this mode or game. What you call "whining" is legitimate. If you don't play you are wasting your teams time, taking them hostage. Sometimes you can't leave a game because other penalties occur.