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>90 % is hard work and consistent effort! Eh.. ok let's go with that. But you know what? That 10% allowed them to have the chance to even do that, whereas oth
by eatsyourtacos 4y ago
>90 % is hard work and consistent effort!
Eh.. ok let's go with that.
But you know what? That 10% allowed them to have the chance to even do that, whereas other people don't even get the opportunity. It's a lot easier then to make "the 90% effort" when you are basically handed the start.
Let's take some physical beast like Lebron James. Has he worked hard? Of course. Was he gifted with an insane physique? Absolutely. My argument is it was much easier him to just "put in the effort" given his start than someone who is built just average.
I'm not trying to diminish people's effort by any means- but it's also not fair to act like these people just made themselves what they are out of no where- and that "anyone can do the same!". I would argue it's the same with intellect. I look at how I've done and sure I've worked hard, but I was also gifted with some good skills that most people just don't have. It really has me look at things differently as I've gotten older- because it's just another type of privilege. Why is it fair that I get to make so much more money and have it easier than someone else just because I happen to have more natural talent for math etc?
Anyway, I think sometimes it's just good to take a good hard look at how people actually become "successful" and most of the time it starts off by something that the person never earned. So maybe we all need to be more humble and realize that everyone is trying hard in life- most people just weren't born as lucky as others.
- dvngnt_ 4y agoLebron's physique is not gifted. He's constantly eating and working out
- Folcon 4y agoI doubt the parent is arguing that he doesn't do either of those things, he is simply hypothesising that Lebron James had very favourable starting conditions compared to his peers, thus reinforcing them was relatively easier.
- naijaboiler 4y agoExactly. No amount of good in childhood would have made me 6'8. My mom is 5'2 and my dad is 5'5"
- pchristensen 4y agoHe's 6'8". He didn't get that by eating.
- genocidicbunny 4y agoTo be a little pedantic, he partially did; IIRC it's well understood that a good diet makes people taller, on average. Your point stands though, even with a bad diet he would have probably been well over 6 feet tall still.
- dvngnt_ 4y agoYou need more than height to be considered the best athlete in the world at a sport. you also have to address working out. staying that fit for so long at his age is incredible. These aren't gifts. they're hard work
- Pet_Ant 4y agoGood genes are table stakes. They let you come up to the table and even have your hardwork matter.