My experience as a single young man in my early to mid 20s is that I never have time for a relationship, and even if I do I'm not well-established enough social

My experience as a single young man in my early to mid 20s is that I never have time for a relationship, and even if I do I'm not well-established enough socially to take one or pursue one, if I get involved with someone now I might have to move for work within a few months, and it takes a lot of time and effort to get into a relationship which I can't afford to invest. Also, young women today are very unapproachable, I've been bullied and socially ostracized for showing interest in girls. Otherwise I have to meet women at bars which almost never results in anyone getting laid because the women are scared to go home with you, having just met you for the first time. Dating apps are basically a scam, they feed off of your anxiety, and they don't usually result in sexual fulfillment. I've learned that the best way to attract young women is to treat them like complete shit, ignore them, be mean and insulting to them. But I don't want to hurt anyone and most young men probably feel the same way. But all the ones I know who get laid regularly are shitty to women in some respect, and it feels like, as a man, if you try to be nice you'll just get walked all over.