> If you were never attractive before to women, you don't suddenly become attractive to them when you're older. Most of the people I've known that say this abo

> If you were never attractive before to women, you don't suddenly become attractive to them when you're older. Most of the people I've known that say this about themselves usually fall into one of two camps: 1) They have glaringly obvious and simple things they can change about themselves that even I notice as a fairly fashion-clueless almost middle aged male. Wear pants that fit. Put a belt on. Shave (or shape) the spotty beard. Stop wearing the same style of clothes that you did as a college freshman. Go to the gym (or don't, I know plenty of overweight men that have productive dating lives because they are charismatic and fun to be around). 2) They have insanely high and hypocritical standards physical standards of beauty and discard anyone who does not reach them before even meeting them. There are very few people who truly need significant cosmetic surgery to enter the dating pool.