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Congrats Steve! Having been there myself, all I can say is hold on tight, it'll be an interesting time to say the least. While every situation is unique, I'd
by Killah911 15y ago
Congrats Steve! Having been there myself, all I can say is hold on tight, it'll be an interesting time to say the least.
While every situation is unique, I'd say expect to be playing the supporting role for mom and baby. Getting used to certain paradigm shifts are also very interesting. For example, once the baby's here, you're Dad first and Steve second.
Expect the on-the-side startup to suffer, at least for the first 4 months. Babies are particularly fragile at till about 4 months old. Even a minor cold can turn into something very serious. So, it's a good think that you work from home. That'll at least spare you from passing out in the middle of the day in a company meeting while the speaker is directly addressing you.
I can't emphasize the supporting role enough. If mom can breastfeed the baby, encourage her to do so long as she can (within reason of course, anywhere from 6mo~8mo should be good). Breastfed babies are generally less susceptible to disease, have better brain development and a whole lot more. There's a huge push from formula companies to get the baby on formula ASAP, resist this if you're able to (it's a lot easier on the wallet too). However, this process takes quite a toll on mom. So, expect to dedicate some energy dealing with all the hormonal changes. Keep an eye out for postpartum depression (for both of you, it can affect dads too).
Warnings and worries aside. You're probably going to be in for the time of your life. Enjoy the baby. Watching them grow is by far one of the most amazing experiences of my life. I can say for sure that I've learned and grown a in that time as well. I look forward to coming home every day. It's given me a whole new outlook on my extended family, community etc. It's been a big motivator and creativity booster as well.
Again, congratulations and best wishes.
- stevejalim 15y agoHi - thanks for the sound advice, too. Am really looking forward to everything that'll be kicking off in the next few weeks :o)