Maybe the women who never write the first message and the men who write "hey" to everybody deserve each other. Though there's an important distinction between

Maybe the women who never write the first message and the men who write "hey" to everybody deserve each other. Though there's an important distinction between writing a message and real-time chat. "Hey" may be perfectly fine for a chat, but not for an email or similar type of direct message. I tend towards the latter.