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It doesn't really matter, since you can strike up a conversation with anyone and don't depend on them swiping right on you.
by somedude895 4y ago
It doesn't really matter, since you can strike up a conversation with anyone and don't depend on them swiping right on you.
- yieldcrv 4y agoroses in hinge are the same as super likes on tinder. both apps let you pay to send an optional message in conjunction with those things to higher leveled people (more attractive/popular) than you. the recipient of a rose+message is just as weirded out or skeptical, has a ton of them, and has a ton of likes from people at their level. which is the reason their level is high at all. so you're just in their long list of matches, not standing out at all. and outside of your own initiative, in both leveling systems, higher leveled / attractive people never see your profile at all to make a decision for or against you. in all dating applications, many people have their notifications turned off, and actually forget to look. if you have another way to meet people, consider more of that. its healthier mentally. the leveling system attempts to mimic the non-dating app attraction world, but is still hampered by how few physical inputs a dating app provides about a potential partner, compared to in-person selection.
- somedude895 4y agoActually also gonna try speed dating. I got the idea from watching an old Borat skit so we'll see how that goes!