My advice to women on such sites is to just ignore the flood of messages (would be nice if you could auto-delete any message from someone you haven't messaged b

My advice to women on such sites is to just ignore the flood of messages (would be nice if you could auto-delete any message from someone you haven't messaged before), and instead just look for interesting messages and only talk to men where you've taken the first step. Only men with an interesting profile. Spending any attention at all on that endless flood on low-effort messages would mean you're never going to find time to actually find and date someone.