> And I get the same impression as she gets about men: that they are lazy and not interested in dating. Coming from a culture where dating doesn’t exist but ha

> And I get the same impression as she gets about men: that they are lazy and not interested in dating. Coming from a culture where dating doesn’t exist but has now sadly been somewhat imported by American applications, I’m still surprised that people find the idea appealing. The whole thing still somewhat baffles me. It’s like job application applied to life partner, capitalist productivism extended to relationships. That and the whole idea that people should date around and non exclusivity is the norm are probably the most repealing part of American culture to me (and there is a lot I dislike about American culture).