I'm partial to the Sofa Theory of Dating: https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/understanding-narcissism/202302/the-sofa-theory-of-dating https://www.psych

I'm partial to the Sofa Theory of Dating: https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/understanding-narcissism/202302/the-sofa-theory-of-dating https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/understanding-narc... I would pay attention to demographics more than anything and make sure you live somewhere where there the odds are in your favor. Since more women go to college these days, it makes sense to go to college (as a male). But the most important thing is to figure out who you are. That is the key super power in dating. You know who you are, your values and what you want. It is OK if it is a work in progress but therapy really helps.