It's not about entertaining, it's about finding someone who is right for you. And I can confirm that this works both ways. I've always known that most women ar

It's not about entertaining, it's about finding someone who is right for you. And I can confirm that this works both ways. I've always known that most women aren't the right person for me. I don't just want some random woman, I want someone who understands me and who I can understand. I met my wife online. I forgot what I wrote in my profile, but it was probably slightly funny and self-deprecating, and honest about being a nerd. It had a photo of me in front of the gate of Timbuctoo. My wife recognised it and wrote a message where she referenced Ouagadougou, the capital of neighbouring Burkina Faso. Most Dutch women would completely lack that sort of knowledge, so that immediately drew me in. She's smart, sensible, not a nerd, but gets along great with nerds (one of her best friends was a nerd in denial). I really do not understand men who just send a "Hey" to every woman they see. Have some standards. And some personality.